What are Yoni Eggs?
The Yoni egg, jade egg, or love egg – are names for a beautiful semiprecious stone carved into an egg shape and polished to be worn inside the yoni (vagina). This was once the only option available, however now in recent years crystal yoni eggs have become available and is something I prefer to use.
It is estimated that women have been practicing with stone eggs for over 5,000 years. Empresses and concubines of the Royal Palace of China used eggs carved out of jade to access sexual power, awaken sensuality and maintain amazing health into their old age. Up until recently, this ancient, secret practice was only available to members of the royal family, and to select Taoist practitioners.
“Yoni” is a Sanskrit word for the female genitalia that means “sacred space.” Its symbol has been worshiped in Eastern cultures since ancient times for bestowing life, creativity and love. We will be using the term “yoni” to bring appreciation and acknowledgment – so often lacking in Western culture – to the creative power this magical part of the female body holds.
Below are a few of many benefits that you can experience if you practice with a Yoni Egg regularly:
- Increase libido and awaken your sensuality.
- Increase natural lubrication, even after menopause. Balance estrogen levels.
- Get to know your yoni closely. Start developing a loving relationship with your yoni, your entire body, and ultimately yourself.
- Practicing with a Yoni Egg not only helps tighten the vaginal walls; it also awakens the tissues, organs, and muscles, promotes new nerve growth, and increases overall sensitivity. This will allow you to experience pleasure you didn’t even know was possible. Be prepared to experience new kinds of orgasms. If you’ve never had a vaginal orgasm before, diligent practice can change this and open up entirely new types of sensation and pleasure.
- Overcome some issues with infertility.
- Easier childbirth with less tearing of the tissue. If you have already given birth, this practice will help repair damaged nerve endings and speed your body’s recovery.
- Strengthen your pelvic floor to help with incontinence and prevent prolapse in the future.
- Gain Control over the vaginal muscles and rock your lover’s world. Increase intimacy.
- A must for serious Tantra, Qigong, and Yoga practitioners.
- Reduced PMS, menstrual cramps and the duration of your menses.
- Improve overall health and well-being.
- Clearing the wmb after love.
Clearing Past Relationships
When a relationship ends, the woman is left carrying an energetic impression of her lover (male or female) in the energetics of the womb. Whenever the internal liquids merge, a transfer of energy (emotional and physic) is passed and stored within the woman. Like a hall of records, this woman will continue to accumulate these energetic snaps shots of her lover, until she brings her awareness to the practices that can clear and empty her of the past.
The kinds of data that woman will being carrying is the heart/body/soul quality of the man in the moment of penetrative and/or oral sex, as well as deep meaningful kissing. These are the moments when the transfer gets made. And what is within that transfer is the vibrational quality of that man’s physical body (is he well, vibrant, fresh, or stagnant, unhealthy and ‘dis-eased’)? Also his emotional condition (is he open, loving, trusting and innocent, or angry, shut down and withdrawn?) Not forgetting his state of mind, (is he present, clear-headed and aware of what is happening, or elsewhere planning something, thinking about someone/thing else and confused?)
All of this needs to be considered. And it’s not only the partner we absorb, but the environment as well. Where are we making love? Is it a beautiful, clean sacred space when time is our own, and our bodies prepared and relaxed? Or is it someone’s else’s space, someone’s else’s bed, that is strewn with their belongings and time is rushed because you fear someone returning?
The womb records all of this. And to clear this we need to do ritual. Praying, meditating, breathing it away is not enough, we need to involve a physical element to make it real.
What type of Yoni Egg should I Use?
This quality of egg would be ideal for a sweet and gentle past lover. A partner that was good hearted, kind to you and caused no real trouble. This egg would soak up and last remnants and easefully erase any last threads of connection, in a sweet and compassionate way.
Red Carnelian, Red Jasper
This quality of egg is to be used if the past lover had a very strong sexual hold over you. The red crystals hold a powerful Shakti, sexual vibrancy that will transmute your sexual attraction for them. The red egg will rest into the Shakti aroused place in your yoni and begin to settle down any excessive longing for him, and return that passion back to yourself.
This quality of egg is the kind to use if you past partner was toxic, abusive and damaging. This incredibly powerful egg will get to work immediately with cutting physic cords, entanglements, contracts, strange holds over you, violation of the mind and any dark tendencies. Black Obsidian is NOT a good stone to start with. It is so powerful and needs to be approached with utter respect and reverence.
Many psychological traumas are stored in the body, and a large percentage in the yoni. We are not just talking about sexual trauma. The yoni, as one of the most essential parts of our being, naturally stores emotional and energetic imprints we pick up in our lives. It makes sense to work with trauma directly at the source, in the body tissue where it is stored. Releasing the patterns of tension in the tissue can help release trauma and remove psychological blockages, which can be tremendously more effective than just talking about them. This is why working with your egg has the power to help you heal old wounds and awaken the life and love you truly desire.
If you notice stirring emotions when you work with your egg, remember to be gentle with yourself. Go slow. Consider taking a break to journal, rest, or spend time in nature.
Yoni Egg Practice Creates Positive Effects that Go Beyond Sexual Wellness.
Inside the vagina there are many reflexology points, just like the ones on the palms of our hands. They correspond with the internal organs – heart, liver, kidneys, spleen, etc. When you wear your egg you are massaging these reflexology points in a similar way to acupuncture, stimulating and rejuvenating the organs of your entire body. It has been noted that women who enjoy sex into old age tend to look younger
Practicing with an egg increases blood flow to your pelvic organs and helps move stagnant energy. Stimulating the ovaries in this gentle way balances hormone levels and reduces PMS and menstrual cramps.
How long Should I wear the Yoni Egg for?
It is understood that the crystalline intelligence of the egg will know exactly when to come out. But this kind of trust takes time and practice. You could begin by wearing for the duration of the night. Then work up to wearing it for a whole day. Then, when you feel ready placing it inside and allowing the duration to be decided upon by the crystal.
There are many different sizes of egg. For beginner’s it is a good idea to opt for a larger one, as its actually easier to wear. It feels more secure. As our muscles develop then we can choose a smaller one. In the beginning the smaller ones can have a tendency to fall out unexpectedly and if you are wearing it during the day this can be quite a surprise!
Sneezing, laughing or coughing can force it to pop out, so be ready to “hold it” with your muscles. NOTE: When using the toilet, be sure to be ready to catch the egg!
Your yoni and womb are amazing, magical places capable of bestowing new life, creating new ideas and visions, and providing you with amazing erotic experiences. By connecting to your yoni and your womb, the very center of your being, you can start accessing your feminine power and creative potential.
About the Author
Anaiya Sophia is an independent mystic of an almost forgotten faith and a teacher of Kundalini Yoga. She carries an Oral Transmission from the Sacred Feminine Mysteries which she weaves into all her gatherings. This mystical tradition is a continuous lineage with the Feminine Principle that throughout the centuries has preserved its spiritual dignity, without need for permission or recognition from any other source. Anaiya breathes the Wisdom of the Feminine Principle into the transformational processes we long for.
She recognizes the need for Initiation, and uses the vast intelligence of her years to orchestrate those Rites of Passage. Her methods carry the hallmarks of a mystic, so unmistakable in today's sugarcoated world of partial truth and placating love. Her ferocious allegiance to direct experience and radical revelation imparts a wisdom that enflames you.
Anaiya is no spiritual lightweight. She has spent the first half of her life soaking up the Christ teachings of the Sacred Heart and Mary Mysteries of the Holy Body. She now turns her attention to Gnosis - the absolute 'in your face' obliterating truth of Direct Connection!
Her realm of transformation lies within the internal conflicts and influences within us that resist the staggering awakening that lies before us. She beckons us towards the Initiatory Rites and powerful processes that ignite the Permission and Power to Speak Up, revealing our divine remembrance in ways that can, and must be lived. She addresses head on the many challenges that stand in our way and the inner alchemy to overcome them.
Her books include:
- Open your Heart with Kundalini Yoga (Harper Collins, 2002)
- Pilgrimage of Love (Lulu, 2011)
- Womb Wisdom (Inner Traditions, 2011)
- Sacred Sexual Union (Inner Traditions, 2013)
- The Rose Knight (Lulu, 2014)
- Sacred Relationships: The Practice of Intimate Erotic Love (Inner Traditions, 2017)
Anaiya lives in the Occitan region of Southern France with her beloved husband Pete Wilson. They operate a Bed & Breakfast where individuals and small groups can come and stay. All their guests leave forever changed.
Anaiya is able to conduct Baptism, Marriage, Divorce and Death Rite Ceremonies.