The last and final step of this ancient practise is the entire handing over from the Priestess to the man's inner feminine.  For this work to be truly authentic the priestess must guide the man towards the crown he has been looking for his whole life - the love of his own soul.  When this union is restored he is put in touch with his emotions and deep innermost feelings and will be able to genuinely grieve and forgive himself and others. As the tears come, his throne shall emerge from the shadows.