Old Paradigm Relationship - in the beginning...
Lots of Sex/Lust, Impressing, Thrilling, Being Wild, Material Gifts, Falling in Love. UNTIL you exhaust yourself and the other and it ends.
New Paradigm Relationship: Three Stages
The longing for something MORE...Deeper intimacy, deeper Truth, deeper sexuality. Until one of both or both of you resists and it ends.
Courtship, Slow and Conscious approach towards sexuality, Revealing, Humility, Being Vulnerable, Inner Gifts, Rising in Love. Until one of both or both of you resists and it ends.
Deepening and Allowing the Fullness of the dismantling process - until All that remains is Christ...
With sincere gratitude to Greg Orie for the joint contemplations and realisations.